I was reading through my previous post on Domestic Violence, and for a moment I thought, wow, that just seemed kind of harsh. I am NOT in any way, shape or form, here to judge you. I am here to lend any help or Support. If you want to talk, I am here to listen. I hope that you don't take it as me being rude. The choices you make are yours, and yours alone. You have your own Reasons for staying. I won't put you down. I am always available to anyone that just wants someone to listen. I take this very seriously. You will find No judgement here, just Support.
Thank you. At one time when my sister was in a very violent realtionship, I thought she was crazy for staying. But I was in a rough one at one time, I then realize why she stayed. Regardless, it isn't a easy choice. But I really do love the man. At the end, I am glad that we stayed together. Although right now he is in Iraq, I know he cares. I give the advice for battered ladies is this, " No matter what people tell you, you have to make up your own mind, b/c at the end, you and only you know him/her the best. And it is between the both of ya'll, your know your realtionship. If you feel in your heart that you guys can make the relationship work, then forget what other people are saying. But if you know that it won't out, we'll I think you know what to do. It is when we are unsure of ourselves- that is when making sound decisions are hard to do. I can only hope for the best for the both of ya'll." That is what I say. And 99% it works.Cat GOOD LUCK to everybody out there- I know life is hard enough w/o extra challenges thrown out there.
